I <3 NYC

Good morning, lovely people! I checked my email this morning and saw that the original flight I booked to New York City departs tomorrow, August 1. I feel so grateful and happy now because I decided to come here a full two months ahead of my original plan.

Sometimes when life says,”Ready? Set?” all a person can do is say, “Go!” and just do it.

What I’ve discovered in New York so far, is more than I can describe in words. The resiliency of the people here is admirable, and with so many people living so close together (a strange concept to Texans) it is nothing short of a miracle that people can still get along. Of course, there has been a rise in violent crimes here, but times are hard for certain people. I do my best to stay safe and make it a point to see the good in everyone I meet.

I am exploring Manhattan bit by bit, feeling alive in the knowledge that I can explore this place for years to come and still have more to learn. The thought makes me excited!

My apartment is feeling more and more like home. Thank you to all the lovely people who helped me by sending me Amazon gift cards and purchasing things from my wish list. I feel the generosity of you all.

It’s a good time to trust in the goodwill and kindness of strangers. What else is there to do? Now is not the time to shut myself off and hide from the unknown. Rather, I am opening my heart wider than I thought possible and embracing the love I’ve found here.

Like a sunflower reaching toward the bright rays, I am growing and feeling more in tune with my soul’s joy. It is good to be alive, and a gift to have my health and to be present in each moment.

It’s been a challenge adjusting my rates and finding a balance between what I need to survive here, and what I feel comfortable receiving for my time. I no longer offer overnights due to personal reasons, but it still warms my heart to spend smaller amounts of time with new friends.

I’ve always seen cities as living, breathing entities. New York grabbed my heart from across the country, and when I came here in April 2019 for the first time, I knew I was home. A little over a year later, I am so thankful and feel blessed because I am putting down roots here. The soil is fertile, the sunshine is bright, and there is plenty of rain.

Until next time,


How to Meet Me

Hello everyone! I am a sweet, petite, babe with a big smile, graceful curves and a love of sensuality. I like to connect with unique gents that have a taste for a little wildness.


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If you’re interested in setting up a meeting, follow these instructions:

1. Email me at kittylola@protonmail.com

2. Send me your reference’s email address and the website where they advertise.

3. Send me a little info about yourself, including age, job description, and hobbies.

If you have no references, I will require the following to proceed with setting up a meeting :

1. A link to your LinkedIN page or professional profile, plus a picture of Driver’s license.

2. A verification fee of $120 sent to my cashapp $kittylola.



I am a New Yorker now!

Hi dear readers and followers. It is with great excitement that I announce that I am now based out of New York City, aka the center the Universe.

I left my heart in Austin, Texas, but I am hoping to find new friends in the Big Apple and beyond. I am still available for fly-me-to-you dates and travel companionship. However most of the time, I will be in New York or traveling to Austin to visit my dearest hearts who still live there.

My decision to move was a difficult one because I found so much love and connection in Austin. It took nothing less than my wildest dreams of being a big city girl to leave such a wonderful place and such wonderful, uniquely amazing individuals in Austin.

I look forward to updating you all on how my new life goes.

Thanks to the special someone’s who sent me gifts for my new apartment. Your gifts are beyond meaningful and make me feel less alone in my new place, where I am still trying to learn the ropes of the big city, especially in the middle of the global pandemic.

I am also happy to share that I am starting a Twitter page in addition to my Switter. I will share the link here, and on my Switter. Follow me on Twitter for daily posts and some pictures, too.

Take care, everyone!


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Men at Work, Men at Rest

In my opinion, a feminine woman rests naturally, even in her work she rests, and accomplishes even arduous tasks requiring time and patience, because she trusts in the life force that dwells within and around her.

This is why a distressed woman, frantic, harried, stressed, or anxious, required compassion to be around and interact with. She is not in her feminine comfort, for whatever reason, and thus she is uneasy.

An resting feminine woman who is at ease, exudes energy and embodies the secret, thrilling, mystery of Life and creation even when she is doing something as simple as putting away groceries. A woman’s resting energy is palpable, sweet, and firm.

Men on the other hand…

And when I speak on men I do it from a woman’s perspective, my own perspective. Please bear this in mind.

Men at rest truly are at rest, because men at work are – or ought to be – machines of production. A man realizes that his creations must come from the sweat and blood of his very physical nature, and any fruit that his hands bring forth must come from direct, toiled labor, in whatever form he may choose.

A man at work , therefore, exudes a paradoxical type of peace because he innately feels that he is in his best masculinity. He is at peace while at work because it is through his work that he feels affirmed and validated in his faith in himself.

Men without work, or purpose, are unable to enjoy the fullness of being a man. Therefore a man at work , with purpose, feels aglow with the intensely masculine style of creation that comes from purpose-driven action.

A man at rest, then, can only be at rest when he is basking in the knowledge and pride of a hard day’s work, and a job well done. He feels pleasantly exhausted and spent, and can turn to his lover, who has been at rest in her own feminine grace, and can easily provide all the energy he requires.

It is in this beautifully harmonious balance between male and female energy that is the foundation for all of life on Earth. The balance depends on living, breathing, active, and passionate people to reach that equilibrium.

Thanks for reading! Till next time,


P.S. How do you and your loved ones balance the masculine and feminine energies of/in work and rest? Do you feel an imbalance, and if so in what area? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.





Springtime Check-In :)

Hello, hello, lovely people. I wanted to write a quick blog post to check in with you all. I do realize it has been *a while*. I let my domain (kittylola.rocks) go without renewing it, so I basically disappeared and was re-born again.

Which means this is the perfect time to update you on what’s new with me!

Since the last time I’ve written, I’ve traveled more and met some amazing and wonderful gentlemen. Life is good when you’re surrounded by good people. I’m feeling excited for the summer 2020 and what the rest of the year has to bring.

With the current global pandemic and the regulations in place, life has gotten even more interesting. I miss nail salons, shopping, and just going to get a good drink, but I’m happy to know that I have nothing to fear or worry about, unlike many people I am fairly lucky.

I feel like the whole COVID19 drama is actually a blessing in disguise, despite the hardships many will face. I feel like as a society, we can all benefit from a reset and a slowing down.

Look at all the hobbies that have been re-born during this quarantine! There is creativity, because there is necessity. Innovation is exciting, and change, especially unwanted change, is the perfect opportunity to innovate and create.

I hope all of you are enjoying the fruit of your labor this Spring and Summer.


Till next time,