In my opinion, a feminine woman rests naturally, even in her work she rests, and accomplishes even arduous tasks requiring time and patience, because she trusts in the life force that dwells within and around her.

This is why a distressed woman, frantic, harried, stressed, or anxious, required compassion to be around and interact with. She is not in her feminine comfort, for whatever reason, and thus she is uneasy.

An resting feminine woman who is at ease, exudes energy and embodies the secret, thrilling, mystery of Life and creation even when she is doing something as simple as putting away groceries. A woman’s resting energy is palpable, sweet, and firm.

Men on the other hand…

And when I speak on men I do it from a woman’s perspective, my own perspective. Please bear this in mind.

Men at rest truly are at rest, because men at work are – or ought to be – machines of production. A man realizes that his creations must come from the sweat and blood of his very physical nature, and any fruit that his hands bring forth must come from direct, toiled labor, in whatever form he may choose.

A man at work , therefore, exudes a paradoxical type of peace because he innately feels that he is in his best masculinity. He is at peace while at work because it is through his work that he feels affirmed and validated in his faith in himself.

Men without work, or purpose, are unable to enjoy the fullness of being a man. Therefore a man at work , with purpose, feels aglow with the intensely masculine style of creation that comes from purpose-driven action.

A man at rest, then, can only be at rest when he is basking in the knowledge and pride of a hard day’s work, and a job well done. He feels pleasantly exhausted and spent, and can turn to his lover, who has been at rest in her own feminine grace, and can easily provide all the energy he requires.

It is in this beautifully harmonious balance between male and female energy that is the foundation for all of life on Earth. The balance depends on living, breathing, active, and passionate people to reach that equilibrium.

Thanks for reading! Till next time,

Lola

P.S. How do you and your loved ones balance the masculine and feminine energies of/in work and rest? Do you feel an imbalance, and if so in what area? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.

Hello, hello, lovely people. I wanted to write a quick blog post to check in with you all. I do realize it has been *a while*. I let my domain (kittylola.rocks) go without renewing it, so I basically disappeared and was re-born again.

Which means this is the perfect time to update you on what’s new with me!

Since the last time I’ve written, I’ve traveled more and met some amazing and wonderful gentlemen. Life is good when you’re surrounded by good people. I’m feeling excited for the summer 2020 and what the rest of the year has to bring.

With the current global pandemic and the regulations in place, life has gotten even more interesting. I miss nail salons, shopping, and just going to get a good drink, but I’m happy to know that I have nothing to fear or worry about, unlike many people I am fairly lucky.

I feel like the whole COVID19 drama is actually a blessing in disguise, despite the hardships many will face. I feel like as a society, we can all benefit from a reset and a slowing down.

Look at all the hobbies that have been re-born during this quarantine! There is creativity, because there is necessity. Innovation is exciting, and change, especially unwanted change, is the perfect opportunity to innovate and create.

I hope all of you are enjoying the fruit of your labor this Spring and Summer.

Till next time,

Lola

I wanted to take a moment to say a genuine thank you to the sweet, amazing individuals who have taken the time and effort to be part of my life. Those who keep in touch. Those who give loving gifts. Those who remind me of our connection.

I feel so overjoyed by the friendship and love I discover and continue to uncover through this work. It is humbling to my soul while at the same time shows me a world more beautiful and generous than I had allowed myself to believe is possible. ❤

I dared to trust my desires and I’m shocked by how thrilled the Universe has been to bring the manifestations to my doorstep. Handsome, gentle, strong, and driven friends surround me and are drawn to me.

I feel more confident than ever in my ability to connect with you and bring a divine, healing energy to our time together. I thank you for being part of my great journey and allowing me to assist you in whatever ways I can, and to be part of your journey. ❤

Cuddles, listening, sharing fantasies, and enjoying being alive, it is my pleasure to share together that inner love and humanity. I promise not to take you for granted ❤ XOXO,
Lola

Hi, beautiful people! I’ve been so enjoying my home space this past week. After spending a week in the Dominican and then a few days in Tennessee (hearts to sweet gent…), I felt strangely quiet being back at home. That’s when I realized I need down time, quiet time, not only to relax and regroup, but to handle mundane details that really add up to important tidbits!

For example, laundry. Another example, spending time with my dog. A third example, cleaning my space. These small actions are plenty to fill a morning with meaningful, productive tasks. I’m learning that life can only be glamorous and exciting with a balance of mundane and detail-oriented aspects, too. I *could* bounce all over and try to keep a high-paced lifestyle, but that would mean allowing the small but important things to fall by the wayside.

It’s a gift to be able to wake up each day, eat something, and drink water. These genuine, life-bringing moments are what I’m all about, and no amount of excitement should ever make the small facets of my daily life un-special.

All this to say, I’m hoping to keep traveling and seeing new places, meeting new people, and expanding my adventure called life. But I am also choosing to balance the fast-paced moments with seriously quiet and focused downtime.

As I prepare for my upcoming visit to Dallas and then NYC afterwards, I remember how blessed I am to have a solid home base. I look forward to traveling, and I look forward to coming home again. ❤

Thank you for reading and staying updated on my inner monologue! 🙂 I appreciate you very much.
XOXO,
Lola

Hi, beautiful people! I am back home and full of little moments from the week in Punta Cana, Domincan Republic and my first visit to Tennessee.

Travel really is the best thing for a change in perspective, which we all need every now and then. I was able to use my recent practice of being in the moment to truly enjoy lounging on the beach. I turned off my phone and left it in the hotel room (there was no service to speak of anyway!) and spent day after day doing exactly what I wanted to do. If I felt hungry, I went to the Snack Bar and ate some french fries. If I was sleepy, I fell asleep on the beach or in my hotel room and took a nap. If I was horny, well… Some things stay in Dominicana 😉

One of my favorite experiences was when two ladies, Mira and Judy, braided my hair for over three hours! The result was an incredibly long bunch of green, white, and black braids. I had such a blast rocking the Island Girl look for one week. I admit that I had a small panic attack trying to remove the braids, which took a lot of effort and patience. It was worth it.

Now that I’m back home, I feel ready to make some small changes in my life. I find that small habits add up to big things! The small changes I plan to make include spending a more disciplined amount of time on administrative tasks such as replying to emails and posting online. This means focused, dedicated hours each day instead of randomly throughout the day. I can tweak it as needed, of course, but I’m hoping this will allow me to focus better on replying and sharing information, and allow me more mental free space when I am not at my computer.

I also noticed while in Dominicana how truly special it is to just sit, and just be. For example, as I sit here writing in the park, I can feel the wind on my face and see this big Texas sky. It’s a moment in time that I get to experience, and it’s a small miracle. It isn’t much, it isn’t even noteworthy and I will probably forget it in a few hours, but it is here and now, and I am the lucky person who gets to experience it.

On another note, my first travel date went swimmingly! Special thanks to You Know Who for making me feel comfortable and taken care of during my trip to Tennessee ❤ It took me a little bravery to venture outside of Texas to meet someone new, but now I know that I can do it, and have a blast too!

Until next time, lovely people. Stay cool.
Lola

Hi, lovely people!

July is going swimmingly, even though someone backed into my car yesterday (yikes!) and knocked off my mirror. Luckily, they were responsible and gave me their insurance information. It was one of those moments where I’m extra thankful to be working on detachment and letting things go, and not taking anything personally. Yes, it definitely sucks to have car trouble, but on the bright side, no one was hurt and someone will fix my car soon! 🙂

In other news, I’m gearing up for my one-week vacation to the Dominican Republic (I know, I know, people are dying there, but I’m still going!) I’m super excited to use my passport and spend days lounging on the beach. I’ll be sure to take photos to share with y’all!

After the DR, I’m making a trip to Tennessee to visit Nashville and spend a few days with a lovely gentleman. It’s my first travel date out of the state, and I’m stoked! I hope to plan more in the future, if this goes well.

I’ve got some exciting things in the works, and I can’t wait to share with y’all soon. ❤

Thanks for your interest, support, and love.

Hugs and Kisses,
Lola